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“The Greatest Love” – February 14, 2012

Mike Coyner and family

Mike & Marcia Coyner and their grandchildren

As I write these words it is Valentine’s Day, and it is also the days after we all heard the shocking news of the death of Whitney Houston. The juxtaposition of those two events is really hard to overlook. Whitney Houston sang a beautiful song about “The Greatest Love” as our ability to learn to love ourselves. Valentine’s Day is a beautiful holiday about loving those who love us. Both events miss the point of the teachings of Jesus.

Jesus taught (in his Sermon on the Mount) that if we simply love those who loves us, there is no big credit in that. Everyone loves those who love them, even the most evil and devious persons somehow learn to love those who love them. Jesus said that his followers must exceed that limited understanding of love. He taught us to love God first, and to love our neighbors as we love ourselves.

Whitney’s sad life is a witness to how hard it is to love ourselves. Her beautiful voice and life devolved into a familiar pattern of self-destruction which has plagued so many other celebrities. It is almost haunting to hear the recordings of her singing about “The Greatest Love.”

How do we achieve that kind of appropriate self-love? I believe Jesus shows us the way. Learning to love ourselves appropriately comes only as we first discover the depth of God’s love for us. Once we know we are loved, that we are lovable, then we can be so filled with God’s love that we are able to love ourselves, our neighbors, and God.

So, it is good to tell those who love us that we also love them. Too many people go through life without ever hearing from their loved ones that they are loved.

But let us not stop there. Let us learn to receive the wonderful and complete love of God who enables us to love ourselves appropriately and to love one another generously.

The love of God is truly the greatest love of all.

 

 

 

For a little light hearted fun, watch Robert G. Lee run through the Bible in about 8 minutes…

 

 

The New Methodists

Friday, February 10th, 2012 | By Next Step Evangelism
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Mark your calendars for a great learning opportunity!

 

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Elaine Heath, Perkins School of Theology

Saturday, March 17, Elaine Heath will be speaking at St. Andrew UMC in West Lafayette, IN on the new monasticism in a forum entitled, The New Methodists. Should be an inspiring day!

Click here for more info.

 

 

Kim Reisman

Kim Reisman

As a delegate to the United Methodist Church General Conference which will be held in Tampa in April/May 2012, I know that I’m not alone in asking for your prayers for this event. The General Conference is the governing body of the United Methodist Church and meets every four years. It is always an important gathering; however, there is quite a bit at stake this time around, including decisions about the episcopacy (bishops), the training of ministers & a complete overhaul of our general church structure. As we have every four years for the last 36 or so, we’ll also revisit issues of sexuality. It will be a quite a time I’m sure.

The General Board of Discipleship has created a wonderful resource – 50 Days of Prayer – which I hope you will consider using during this time leading up to General Conference. It is a devotional guide to assist you in praying for the overall body of Christ, the UMC in particular & the delegates specifically. I commend it to you.

Thank you in advance for your spiritual support as I prepare for this important gathering. If you know of other delegates, I encourage you to pray for them as well.

Peace,

Kim

 

Click on the title to download: General Conference_50Days_of_Prayer.

Joy Moore

Joy Moore

So let it be written, so let it be done.

Yul Brynner and Charlton Heston fans will remember these words repeated throughout Hollywood’s version of the Ten Commandments. For generations, people have believed it important to remember the details of the Exodus. But as the opening to the Fellowship of the Rings reminds us, much that once was, has been forgotten, because no one lives who remember. Long before Cecille B. DeMille directed the screenplay, an accountant echoed that narrative of liberation, choosing a similar tagline – as it is written. And since we’ve now entered the season when tax collectors will alternately seem our best friends and worst enemies, maybe it was appropriate to reconsider the blog of an ancient tax collector.

Bear with me; because unlike most of our random tweets and multiple text-messages, these entries have been the favorite of generations of readers. Like choosing FOX News over CNN (or vice-versa), Christians are familiar with Matthew’s version of the beatitudes, the Lord’s prayers, and the golden rule. While some have described this genre we call “a Gospel” as a passion narrative with an extended introduction, to do so ignores it’s fusion of faith and morality. Like the blog left by James, the brother of Jesus, this fusion of gospel and ethics stands over and against those who claim accepting Jesus as Lord and Savior is all that is required. Like Micah wrote, what is required is practicing justice. So let it be written, so let it be done.

But I’ll get back to that.

So we have before us an ancient entry. And contrary to my general practice of avoiding single texts for preaching, I draw your attention to what we call Matthew 26:24

The Son of Man will go just as it is written about him. But woe to the man who betrays the Son of Man! It would be better for him if he had not been born.

(I suspect Judas wished that tweet hadn’t gone viral)

It is always important to remember, Christian Scripture is not first about us. The Bible provides an ordered account of God’s activities of setting things right even though we keep messing things up. If God hasn’t given up on the world, then we can face the problems and difficulties of this moment, because we know what we see now is not the way things will always be. When we pay attention to the revelation made available in Christian scripture, we see what God is doing. And what we see God doing in the Bible, we are supposed to be doing in the world. So let it be written, so let it be done.

Such a commitment may cost you your life. It’s dangerous to walk your talk. Consider Martin Luther King Jr., Oscar Romero, Deitrich Bonhoeffer, or Stephen Biko. Note, Judas isn’t the significant casualty in this narrative. Still, it is not the death, but the life of Jesus that needs to be examined: A life lived to demonstrate God’s words are true. A demonstration punctuated by the willingness to die in order that others might have a more abundant life.

These words of Jesus recorded at the very end of Matthew’s blog stands in direct opposition to the notion of packing your bags and waiting to cash in on that fire insurance policy with its eventual pie-in-the-sky.

Then Jesus came to them and said, “All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me. Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you. And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age.”

The challenge for the disciples was to be the bridge for someone else to experience justice. When Jesus called the disciples, he didn’t send them out in search of instant conversions. He gave them an example of living before telling. Doing before speaking. Go. Make. Baptize. And teach. This is one way in which Jesus was the incarnation of God. His life was a demonstration of God’s promises given to a chosen people on behalf of every nation. Use words to explain not promise, because God has already made the promise that matter.

This is significant. That which is written, that which we are to do…was already spoken. The only time words create from nothing is when God speaks. Ever since creation, we have only been reporters of what is happening …to what God created good.

But if our practices match God’s promises, we can exercise the right to remain silent. Take note: Matthew has preserved for us not merely a passion narrative, but a record of how Jesus always acted before he spoke. That should be our Christ like behavior. Rather than talk the talk, walk the walk so people look at you and see a glimpse of the glory of God.

This is significant. Today the people of God do good works in order that the world knows God is good.  Ours resume is supporting cast member not center-stage celebrity. We are translators not spokespersons.  We don’t have to mimic Walt Disney to create a world – we’ve been hired as tour guides for those who visit God’s wonderland.

Think about this: God is not asking us to transform the world. God is not asking us to fix the world. God is not telling us to tell the world what to do. Really.

We don’t have to set things right. We merely demonstrate what right looks like. We practice justice.

So since it was written, so let it be done.

Kimberly Reisman

Kim Reisman

Stories for the Journey…

 

As my family has grown, I’ve moved the place where I study to various parts of the house. I started in a corner of my bedroom, then we were able to remodel & I got an actual room to myself (the smallest in the house of course). Then my son moved out & I was able to move into his old room. Now my daughter has ventured out on her own & I’ve just transitioned into her old room. I think I’ve reached my final destination!

At each stage of the game, I’ve gone through files & books, reading & remembering, reorganizing & discarding. The other day I came across an excerpt that my father sent me from one of his books. He had come across it in his own reorganizing & wanted to make sure I knew the story & that I passed it down to my kids as well.

Stories shape us. Our family stories. Our faith stories. We need to know our stories. This is a small one that shaped my father & me. It’s taken from his book Be Your Whole Self which was written in 1970:

 

…our deeds usually emanate from our values.

            In a folder of precious keep-sakes I have a Drew Pearson column entitled A Rabbi’s Kindness Didn’t Pay in Mississippi. It was written at Christmastime, 1964. The article begins,

Christmas being the anniversary of a Jew born in Bethlehem nearly 2000 years ago, I write the story of a Jew who lives in Mississippi today. His name is Rabbi David Ben-Ami of Temple B’nai Israel in Hattiesburg, and his trials and tribulations began when he befriended ministers of other faiths and incurred the wrath of modern money changers.

Drew Pearson goes on to tell the story of how Rabbi Ben-Ami visited clergymen who had been thrown in jail for their demonstrations against racial injustices, of his befriending a white Presbyterian minister who had been involved in the struggle for racial justice, of his assistance in distributing turkeys to needy Mississippi families of all races under the Dick Gregory “Christmas for Mississippi” program. This was too much for the Rabbi’s congregation. They insisted that he leave. They were not ruthless, as were the money changers of Jerusalem with another Jew nearly 2000 years ago. They were polite and sympathetic – but they pointed out that they had heavy investments in Hattiesburg which could be bankrupted by boycotts. Since the Rabbi had no investment in Mississippi, it seemed simpler for him to look for another congregation.

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Dunnam family circa 1963 - clockwise from bottom left: Kerry, Jerry, Freddy Davis, Maxie, Kim

            That article is meaningful to me because of an incident that occurred at Christmastime, 1963. We had two children then. With them, my wife and I were driving from Gulfport, Mississippi to Richton, my parents’ home, about 100 miles away. It was an unusually cold night. Ice was on the road and it was sleeting.

            We had left Gulfport following a church meeting where a lot of angry feelings had been expressed about the racial situation and my involvement in it. It was close to midnight out on a dark lonely highway when our car stalled. There was little traffic. The children were getting colder and we were getting anxious. After what seemed to be an endless time (and the passing of numerous cars) we were getting to the point of desperation, when an old model car came to a screeching halt beside us.

            I told the driver our plight, and without asking any further questions, he invited us into his car, helped us transfer luggage, and went out of his way to take us to a friend’s home in the nearest town where we could spend the night and attend to the car problem the next day.

            This man had an accent different than mine, and I knew he was not a Mississippian. I surmised, as we often wrongly do, that he was a Jew, and his warm ministry of love reminded me of another Jew and a story he told about a Good Samaritan. Before we reached our destination, I learned that I was right. He was a Jew. His name was David Ben-Ami, rabbi of Temple B’nai Israel in Hattiesburg.

            It was this man that Drew Pearson wrote about a year later. Not only to the disinherited and dejected of the Negro race, but to a desperate white Anglo-saxon Protestant Christian Minister and his freezing family, this man expressed love. I don’t know where Rabbi Ben-Ami is today, but wherever he is, I have an idea that he lives effectively with the nitty-gritty. He has experienced values that transcend religion or race, social or economic boundaries. His synagogue in Hattiesburg may have rejected his witness, but they couldn’t annul it. Mississippi and the world is different today, because of men like Rabbi David Ben-Ami.

            This is one way meaning comes – through experiencing values. That’s what religion is – the search for a value underlying all things. When we experience certain values – i.e. the value of persons, the relationship of love, the meaning of self-integrity – life takes on meaning, and we can live with the nitty-gritty.

People may reject our witness, but they can never annul it.

Stories convey values. Values provide meaning. Meaning empowers us to live with the nitty-gritty – whatever that nitty-gritty might be. What are your stories? How have they brought you meaning? Are you sharing them with those you love?